The experience for single women in the frum community since 2021.

Unite is changing

The experience for single
women in the frum
community since 2021.

In the family-focused frum community, single women are on their own but no longer have to feel alone.

We cannot change the timing or the circumstances that Hashem has ordained for each woman, but with your support our community has the resources it needs to change the experience of the journey.
unite member

Malkah H

In Unite, I get to feel normal.

In a world where family is the focus and children are the priority, as a single girl living alone, I often wonder where I fit. I drive to work through my development every morning, watching mothers, many likely younger than me, usher their kids onto the bus. And every day, the same thought passes through my mind: When will that be my life? When will my life look like everyone else’s?

But then 7:30 pm comes.

What Your Support Makes Possible

She has somewhere to go on the nights that used to feel the longest.

She builds real friendships that become her support system.

She shows up to Shabbos and Yom Tov feeling included, not on the outside.

She gains confidence in herself and in her journey.

She becomes part of a community that feels like home.

What was once a stage of isolation becomes one of connection, growth, and belonging.

With your support—

She has somewhere to go on the nights that used to feel the longest
She builds real friendships that become her support system
She shows up to Shabbos and Yom Tov feeling included, not on the outside
She gains confidence in herself and in her journey.
She becomes part of a community that feels like home

Unite isn’t a once-in-a-while experience.
It’s a steady presence—woven into everyday life.
Your support shapes how a woman experiences this stage
of her life—and what she’s able to become within it.

By the Numbers

120

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Dinners Yearly

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184

Active Members

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Fundraising campaigns

Unite isn’t a once-in-a-while experience. It’s a steady presence—woven into everyday life. Your support shapes how a woman experiences this stage of her life—and what she’s able to become within it.

On their own but not alone

  • “It’s hard to watch your child wait — I assumed I’d be pampering grandchildren by now, but shidduchim has been a journey. Unite has been a gift to both her and our family. There are places I can’t show up as her mother, not her peer, and Unite has given her new friendships and a true sense of belonging. Knowing she has that has been a great comfort to me.”

    Unite Mother

  • Before unite, I can’t tell you how many nights I spent panicking, lonely, and uncertain if I’ll ever feel okay. Thanks to unite, those days are rare. I finally have a place where I belong, and it’s changed everything.

    Batsheva G.

  • “In a time when it’s hard to feel you belong, Unite gives belonging”

    Bracha Daum LCSW, Unite Advisory Board Member

  • “Feeling part of a community creates the support that is so crucial for personal growth and happiness, Unite fills that need by providing a sense of connection and belonging for the single women of Lakewood”

    Rabbi Y Grossberg, Unite Rabbinical Guidance